Why Some Mistakes Are Too Costly to Learn the Hard Way (ft. Dr. John Check)

We all make mistakes — a lot of us make the same ones over and over. In this episode, we welcome back our friend Dr. John Check, pastor and author, to talk about his new book, Experience Is What You Get Right After You Need It, and what real mistake recovery actually looks like.

We dig into the difference between a mistake and an infraction, why Type A personalities have such a hard time processing failure, and why it matters to understand your own wiring and the wiring of the people you lead. Dr. Check shares practical tools he’s used for decades — asking trusted “spotters” to call out his blind spots, leaning on a small accountability group, and building real friendships outside the church walls. The conversation lands on something bigger than avoiding mistakes: learning to be thankful in the middle of them, because that’s often where real spiritual maturity is found.