Episode 17: Running the Race (ft. Dr David Alan Black)

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In this episode, Abidan Paul Shah will be talking with Dr. David Alan Black about his newest book “Running My Race: Reflections on Life, Loss, Aging, and Forty Years of Teaching.” It’s about learning to deal with the pains of life in a way that draws us closer to the heart of God. Both laypeople and scholars will benefit from this book.

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DADS WANTED PART 2

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DADS WANTED – 2 by Pastor Shah, Clearview Church, Henderson

dadswantedparttwoThis weekend we’re again taking a break from our ongoing series on the Sermon on the Mount and completing part two of our message – “DADS WANTED.” As I mentioned last week, this subject is very dear to my heart – more important than being a pastor, more important than being a bible teacher, and it comes next only to my relationship with my wife. It’s my calling to be a dad to my children.

Proverbs 4 10 Hear, my son, and receive my sayings, And the years of your life will be many. 11 I have taught you in the way of wisdom; I have led you in right paths. 12 When you walk, your steps will not be hindered, And when you run, you will not stumble. 13 Take firm hold of instruction, do not let go; Keep her, for she is your life.

Overall Background: 10 Hear, my son, and receive my sayings, And the years of your life will be many. As you know, King Solomon spoke these words to his son Rehoboam. He was teaching him wisdom in the form of proverbs. He was teaching him about long life, hard work, money, honesty, relationships, bad people, and on and on in the form of proverbs. People often ask me – “Aren’t Proverbs more like principles rather than promises? Aren’t they more like general descriptions of life rather than guarantees of blessings?” I often hear that and so I point them to Jeremiah 18:18 which says,“…for the law shall not perish from the priest, nor counsel from the wise, nor the word from the prophet…” There were 3 ways in which God spoke to His people – Law from the Priest, Counsel from the Wise, and Prophecy from the Prophet. They’re all equally important. Proverbs fall under the category of Counsel. Since the word of God endures forever, proverbs also endure forever. But, you have to study them carefully and contextually. You have to study them like diamonds in the rough. Before you can put them in a glass case, they have to be cleaned, cut, and polished. Then, they are worth in the thousands and even millions. So also with these Proverbs – when you truly understand them and apply them, you can wear them like a diamond ring and a gold necklace and they will bring you infinite value.

Last time we looked at the first 5 letters where Solomon warned his son to avoid the wrong crowd, learn to seek wisdom, be merciful and truthful in order to be successful, appreciate discipline, and have a godly heritage. In the remaining 5 letters, he will be teaching his son the dangers of bad company, how to exercise self-control, and (the last 3 letters) how to have a happy marriage.

I said it before and I’ll repeat it again – America is in a crisis today – the crisis of fatherhood. The reason our young people and even adults are doing the things they’re doing is because there is no male in their lives to instruct them, to correct them, and to be there for them. America desperately needs some Solomons.

Application: Are you being the dad you’re supposed to be for your children? Are you teaching them godly wisdom? Are you modeling a godly lifestyle? Are you saved?

Again, 5 Reasons Dads are wanted:

I. DADS ARE WANTED TO TEACH CHILDREN TO CHOOSE THE RIGHT PATH. 

Proverbs 4 10 Hear, my son, and receive my sayings…14 Do not enter the path of the wicked, And do not walk in the way of evil.

Background: The wicked have a path that has been used for centuries. Just like some of our interstates today are sitting on the wagon trails that were actually used by the Indians before them. For centuries people have been walking on those paths and now they have become trails and roads and interstates. So also the paths of the wicked – people have been walking a certain way for centuries and thus the way of evil.

Solomon warns his son – 15 Avoid it, do not travel on it; Turn away from it and pass on. 16 For they do not sleep unless they have done evil; And their sleep is taken away unless they make someone fall. 17 For they eat the bread of wickedness, And drink the wine of violence. 18 But the path of the just is like the shining sun, That shines ever brighter unto the perfect day. 19 The way of the wicked is like darkness; They do not know what makes them stumble.

Application: Dads – do you take the time to teach your children about dangers of the wicked path? Are you walking in the wicked path?

II. DADS ARE WANTED TO TEACH CHILDREN SELF-CONTROL. 

Background: Now Solomon is telling his son – “Son, you have an enemy and it is YOU!”

First enemy: YOUR HEART – 23 Keep your heart with all diligence, (Keep – mismar. It means a prison or standing guard.) For out of it spring the issues of life. As Jesus said in Matthew 15:19 19For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies.

Second enemy: YOUR MOUTH – 24 Put away from you a deceitful mouth, And put perverse lips far from you. As Jesus said in Matthew 15:11 11Not what goes into the mouth defiles a man; but what comes out of the mouth, this defiles a man.”

We shape our words and then our words shape us. If you don’t like where you are headed, change the way you talk. Many of us are speaking our world into existence.

Third enemy: YOUR EYES – 25 Let your eyes look straight ahead, And your eyelids look right before you. Jesus said in Matthew 6:22-23 22“The lamp of the body is the eye. If therefore your eye is good, your whole body will be full of light. 23But if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If therefore the light that is in you is darkness, how great is that darkness! Avoid looking at the forbidden fruit. That’s when Eve fell.

Fourth enemy: YOUR FEET – 26 Ponder the path of your feet, And let all your ways be established. 27 Do not turn to the right or the left; Remove your foot from evil.

Bottom line: Children have to be taught self-control and fathers are given that responsibility.

Application: Dads – Are you teaching your children to exercise self-control? Do you have self-control in your life? Remember – it is the fruit of the Spirit.

Now we come to the last 3 letters. They all address the same issue – Adultery. Would you agree that this is a big issue? Last week as I was looking at my newsfeed, I saw the headlines mega-church pastor resigns because of adultery. When I saw the name, my heart just sank. I couldn’t believe it. Not him. But sadly it was true. This subject is so important that Solomon devotes all 3 letters to it! Even though much of what he says overlaps, each letter has a distinct truth that needs to be emphasized.

III. DADS ARE WANTED TO TEACH CHILDREN THE DANGERS OF ADULTEROUS TALK. 

Proverbs 5 1 My son, pay attention to my wisdom; Lend your ear to my understanding, 2 That you may preserve discretion, And your lips may keep knowledge.

Background: Lips represent our words. Solomon is telling his son, “Watch out for your words.” In other words, “Don’t be impulsive and indiscreet in how you talk to the opposite sex.”

Did you know that most adulterous relationships begin not with the eyes but with the words? Something as seemingly harmless as “Boy, you look pretty. I hope your husband appreciates you.” Or for ladies – “If my husband was as nice as you…” Before you know it – there is an affair.

Who better to talk about this than Solomon! He had a way with words. He was a wordsmith. If you don’t believe that, read the Song of Solomon.

But there’s more – 3 For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey, And her mouth is smoother than oil; Meaning: Not only watch out for your own words but also watch out for the words of the immoral man or woman. They know how to use seductive words. Just like honey, their words our sticky and they fall one drop at a time (literally). They are relentless. Just like oil, her words are smooth and slippery.

Listen to what James 3:2 For we all stumble in many things. If anyone does not stumble in word, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle the whole body. Meaning: If we can control your words, we can control our actions.

Application: Dads – what kind of words do you use around your children? How do you talk to your wife, their mother? They’re learning. How you talk to people on the outside?

IV. DADS ARE WANTED TO TEACH CHILDREN THE DANGERS OF ADULTEROUS THOUGHTS.

Proverbs 6 20 My son, keep your father’s command, And do not forsake the law of your mother…24 To keep you from the evil woman, From the flattering tongue of a seductress. 25 Do not lust after her beauty in your heart, Nor let her allure you with her eyelids.

Background: Now Solomon is going a step beyond and talking about lust. It involves thinking and daydreaming about the other person. Now you are in dangerous territory. When you begin to entertain and picture yourself with that person, it’s a matter of time before you fall headfirst into adultery.

What is the antidote? Remember the consequences that will follow if you keep on that path. 26 For by means of a harlot A man is reduced to a crust of bread; And an adulteress will prey upon his precious life. 27 Can a man take fire to his bosom, And his clothes not be burned? 28 Can one walk on hot coals, And his feet not be seared? 29 So is he who goes in to his neighbor’s wife; Whoever touches her shall not be innocent. 32 Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding; He who does so destroys his own soul. 33 Wounds and dishonor he will get, And his reproach will not be wiped away. 34 For jealousy is a husband’s fury; Therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance.

Think about the consequences of adultery – destroy your marriage, destroy your children, destroy your testimony, and destroy the work of the church.

Application: Dads – do you take the time to warn your children about the dangers of delving in lust? Is there lust in your heart? When was the last time you repented before God?

V. DADS ARE WANTED TO TEACH CHILDREN THE DANGERS OF ADULTEROUS TRAPS.

Proverbs 7 1 My son, keep my words, And treasure my commands within you…6 For at the window of my house I looked through my lattice, 7 And saw among the simple, I perceived among the youths, A young man devoid of understanding, 8 Passing along the street near her corner; And he took the path to her house 9 In the twilight, in the evening, In the black and dark night. 10            And there a woman met him, With the attire of a harlot, and a crafty heart. 11 She was loud and rebellious, Her feet would not stay at home. 12 At times she was outside, at times in the open square, Lurking at every corner. 13 So she caught him and kissed him…21 With her enticing speech she caused him to yield, With her flattering lips she seduced him. 22 Immediately he went after her, as an ox goes to the slaughter, Or as a fool to the correction of the stocks, 23 Till an arrow struck his liver. As a bird hastens to the snare, He did not know it would cost his life. 24 Now therefore, listen to me, my children; Pay attention to the words of my mouth: 25 Do not let your heart turn aside to her ways, Do not stray into her paths; 26 For she has cast down many wounded, And all who were slain by her were strong men. 27 Her house is the way to hell, Descending to the chambers of death.

No one wakes up one morning and says, “I’m going to commit adultery.” It’s a word here, a thought there, and a step taken towords sin. If you think it’s not going to happen to you, think again. You will have to decide in your heart where you stand with lust. If the most beautiful and compatible woman were to walk in this room, what will you do? What if you feel that this is the one that you were supposed to be with? What if you feel a connection? What if you feel that you can be yourself around this one? It’s the lie of the devil. You are like an ox going to the slaughter. Wake up!

We need fathers who will not only talk about these things to their children but also live it out before them. We need fathers who are born again Christians. We need fathers who live by the Holy Spirit. We need fathers who are obedient to Jesus Christ and his word. We need fathers who are about the mission that God has given them to seek and to save that which was lost. We need fathers after God’s own heart.

Are you the father? Are you saved?

Where are the Vikings? (Men in Church)

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WHERE ARE THE VIKINGS? (MEN AT CHURCH) by Pastor Shah, Clearview Church, Henderson

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As you know, we are in our series on the Life of Christ from all 4 gospels and this morning our message has a title that has raised some eyebrows – “WHERE ARE THE VIKINGS?” “WHERE ARE THE MEN IN CHURCH?” One compliment I often hear from new people who come to Clearview is how did you get all these men to come to church? My answer is #1 I didn’t God brought them; #2 it was not by accident. It was by intention.

Matthew 4 18 And Jesus, walking by the Sea of Galilee, saw two brothers, Simon called Peter, and Andrew his brother, casting a net into the sea; for they were fishermen. 19 Then He said to them, “Follow Me, and I will make you fishers of men.” 20 They immediately left their nets and followed Him. 21 Going on from there, He saw two other brothers, James the son of Zebedee, and John his brother, in the boat with Zebedee their father, mending their nets. He called them, 22 and immediately they left the boat and their father, and followed Him.

Overall Background: When Jesus began his ministry, his first action was to call certain people to be his disciples. He knew that his time was short and it was imperative that His message would be passed along when He was gone. He wanted to pour His life, truth, power, and vision into these disciples. That is very understandable. But what is interesting is that every one of these disciples was a man! Did you notice that? Peter, Andrew, James, John, Nathaniel, Matthew, and so on. Why did Jesus do that? Was it because Jesus was just a product of His time? Was He just some patriarchal rabbi who looked down upon women? Was he some narrow-minded, male chauvinist member of the “he-man woman haters club?” Absolutely not.

This morning, we’re going to look at the reason why He called men to be His disciples. Ladies – you need to hear this message because without your wholehearted support, we cannot reach men. Men – you need to hear this message because it’s high time that you wake up. Every church in America needs to hear this message. What’s happening in our churches, community, nation, and the world is because the right men are absent (AWOL) Bottom line: We need men who know Jesus as their Savior to step to the plate.

Three questions we will answer in this message:

I. WHAT DID JESUS THINK OF WOMEN?

Did he look down on them? Absolutely not! We know that Jesus healed women.

  • Last week we saw how He healed Peter’s mother-in-law.Jesus healed women
  • In Luke 7 He came across a widow whose only son had died and verse 13 says, “When the Lord saw her, He had compassion on her” and he healed her son.
  • In Mark 5 a certain woman had a flow of blood for 12 years. She was just trying to touch the hem of his garment. He not only identified her but healed her and called her “Daughter.”

We also know that Jesus spent extended time talking to women.

  • The woman caught in adultery
  • The Samaritan woman at the well
  • Mary and Martha, the sisters of Lazarus

We also know that Jesus used women as part of His illustrations.

  • James C. Christensen - The widow's miteWoman who lost her coin
  • Ten bridesmaids who were waiting for the bridegroom
  • Poor Widow who brought just a mite to the offering.

Did you also know that many women followed Jesus along with his disciples? Luke 8 tells us that not only were the twelve men with Him but also 2 certain women who had been healed of evil spirits and infirmities—Mary called Magdalene, out of whom had come seven demons, 3 and Joanna the wife of Chuza, Herod’s steward, and Susanna, and many others who provided for Him from their substance. In fact, they were the first ones to whom He came after His resurrection.

In a time when women were considered to be just second class citizens, Jesus treated them with respect and honor. In a time when the only woman that had some freedom was the mistress, Jesus reached out to them with no ulterior motive. No wonder a woman came, fell on his feet, broke a bottle of perfume, washed his feet with her tears and then wiped them with her hair. Which one of you women would do that for any man? Unless, you knew that man loved you and came to lift you and seat you on the throne of glory. Someone might say – “Jesus was okay with women but not Paul.” Listen to Galatians 3 27 For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ. 28 There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

Application: Girls and ladies – do you know how precious you are to God? Any boy or man who mistreats a girl or woman does not understand Jesus Christ or His Gospel.

II. WHY DID JESUS CALL ONLY MEN TO BE HIS DISCIPLES? 

It was not because he was being sensitive to the Jewish culture. Jesus repeatedly broke the Sabbath laws, ate with tax collectors and prostitutes, refused to wash his hands before meals, and repeatedly chastised the keepers of the customs – the Pharisees.

It was not because women were not supposed to be leaders. We know of Deborah in the Old Testament who was a judge. Before Herod the great became king, Queen Alexandra ruled Israel for three decades. In fact, even today women make fine leaders and presidents! Case in point: The Iron Lady Margaret Thatcher.

It was not because women could not handle spiritual matters. Think about Mary sitting by the feet of Jesus listening and learning. When Mary & MarthaMartha complained in Luke 10 Jesus said, 41 “…“Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things. 42 But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.”

So why did Jesus call only men to be His disciples? It was a matter of correct representation. A disciple is a representative. A disciple’s job is to communicate not just what the master says but who the master is, his entire being. He wanted them to represent Him when He was gone. Who is Jesus? He is the Son of God. Son implies maleness. Hence the disciples had to be male to truly represent Him. But it goes even further. This Son of God has a Father. John 1:18 No one has seen God at any time. The only begotten Son, who is in the bosom of the Father, He has declared Him. Did you notice all the gender specific nouns and pronouns?

Why has God chosen to reveal himself as our “Heavenly Father” not our heavenly mother? In our gender-neutral world, that is hard for some people to follow. A father symbolizes authority and leadership. He is the initiator, provider, and protector. Does God not have any female attributes? Yes – He is nurturing and caregiving but He is not the receiver (if you know what I’m talking about) or gives birth. He created us.

Jesus & His DisciplesWhat does that have to do male disciples? The disciples were to be an image of God the Son who was the image of God the Father. That’s why in the Old Testament the priest were always men. Later, Paul explained it more in I Corinthians 11:3 But I want you to know that the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man, and the head of Christ is God. That’s why in our church the pastors and the servant leaders are men. This does not mean that I can save you or forgive your sins. I am called to be the under shepherd. I work for the Good Shepherd. Who is He? Jesus said in John 10:11 “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd gives His life for the sheep.” Most of the time I am a very representation but that’s what I’m called to be. One day I’ll have to give an account to the Great Shepherd (Hebrews 13:20).

What do you think of women pastors? It’s biblically wrong. What if they can preach? I think some of them can preach better than some of our men preachers but it still doesn’t make it right. How did it happen? Men – it’s because you failed to step up to the plate that they had to step up and do your job. Again, this does not apply to outside the church because it has nothing to do with God’s representation as the Son and the Father.

III. WHAT DOES THIS HAVE TO DO WITH VIKINGS?

Growing up I loved to read about Vikings and Cowboys. They represented manliness to me. Now, I’m done talking about beating up and shooting up people that are weaker than you. Any coward can do that. But, Vikings represented the adventure spirit, the taking the risk spirit, and the sailing into unchartered waters spirit. It was a no fear spirit. When people heard their name, they were afraid.

The disciples were afraid until the Holy Spirit came upon them on the day of Pentecost and the same bumbling and blundering disciples became bold representatives of Jesus Christ. The Book of Acts tells us – Peter stood up boldly on the day of Pentecost and preached the message and three thousand got saved! Acts 2 43 Then fear came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were done through the apostles…47 praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to the church daily those who were being saved. Then we hear about Stephen who was not afraid even when ungodly men rushed him and through his death Paul got saved and the church grew exponentially.

The point is – when men representing Christ lead the church, it grows by leaps and bounds. The church in America is on life support. If anything it’s barely crawling. Is it the fault of the women? No. They’ve had to reluctantly step up and take the job that was meant for men – to be the spiritual leaders of the church, to be the spiritual leaders of their homes, and to be the representation (the disciple) of Jesus Christ. Unfortunately, the church has taken on the attributes of women, which is nurturing and caregiving. It has stopped conquering the world for Jesus Christ. Don’t get me wrong. We need women in church. What will happen if we don’t have women to give the care and grace and love we need. But without men stepping out, taking risks, and being bold, there won’t be anyone left in the church to give care and grace and love to. Sadly men have become whiners and complainers. They walk around with a loser’s limp. Then we talk about being old. Clearview is young people’s church! Even the aged are young.

Is Clearview doing everything right? Probably not but we are trying to go back to biblical Christianity and capture our world for Jesus Christ. We’re trying to create an atmosphere were men (lost men) don’t feel the church is just for women and children. It is reflected in the way we do service, in the way I preach, and in the way we sing. We tried to weed out praise songs that are geared towards women only. Sometimes it can be hard. We tried to introduce new stuff. Women are more open to change than men. We even tried to bring in old hymns. Someone will say – “That’s right. I love those manly hymns.” Here’s a problem – you got tired of them and stop singing them. Men – when you get familiar with something, you lose interest in it. It becomes tradition. Now we do it cause “by golly that’s what we’re going to do.”

Invitation: Where are the Vikings? Are you saved? Are you leading your home and your church? Women – are you letting your men lead? Trust me, they won’t lord over you but wash your feet.

Matthew 16:24 Then Jesus said to His disciples, “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me.

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